Monday, September 23, 2013

I've been 30 for a while now

It's been over 4 years since I've last blogged. I don't know whether it'll be another 4 years till I write another. But I thought I'd write a little bit just to get my brain going. This is a recycled post. Posted 5 years before I turned 30, and now being re-posted just before I turn 31.

1. Drive a wickedly cool car, even if you have to rent it. "Wickedly cool" is defined as any car that turns heads on the streets. They say life is a journey and you should enjoy the ride.
I used to "not do manual", but I can semi-confidently say that I do do manual. I have yet to drive a wickedly cool car. The coolest I've driven was my cousin's boyfriend's type-R around the block.
2. Date against type. Better yet, date somebody "dangerous." Waking up tied to a bed with a person who has more tattoos than brains will give you stories to regale other members of the old-age home in your dotage.
Yes.
3. See the world. It's much easier to do when you're 22 and footloose than 35 with two bawling babies in your backpack.
Before I turned 30, I moved to Hong Kong. Then I got pregnant. I managed, however, to visit a few new countries before I hit the milestone age - Malaysia, Singapore, Macau... and I guess Hong Kong! Now that I've got one bawling baby (he's pretty sensible, only bawls for a reason) - we've got Korea, more of Thailand and Sanya before I turn 31!
4. Live in a cool place.
Been living in Hong Kong since May 2012!
5. If you're going to drink a lot, do it when you're young. Getting sick on cheap white wine after 30 is pretty pathetic. Young drunks sometimes get away with being "cute," though you may still have a lot of apologizing to do. Get this experimentation out of your system and you'll appreciate finer spirits when you get older.
No change to previous post.
6. Take risks with your job. Most people end up changing direction in their careers after their 20s anyway, so, take the time to figure out what you want to do. There will be time enough to be a cubicle drone later.
I haven't taken any real risks yet. I've requested moves to another project and that felt like a risk at the time! Going back to work full time and trying to find something to occupy my brain for the rest of my career will need to involve some actual risks I think!
7. Do something physically adventurous. And do it OUTSIDE! No one will ever be remembered for playing Nintendo or watching every single episode of "Friends." Enjoy your body while you're young, push it to its limits!
I've been skiing again - post ACL reconstruction skiing too! That's pretty adventurous! That's all though. The other week I went wake boarding and I can't wait to do it again!
8. Take your parents to dinner. It gives you a chance to show your parents that you are an equal and that you are responsible. It's also a chance to show your appreciation for all those dinners they bought over the years.
Always.
9. Do volunteer work. You may be broke, but you can give your sweat and earnestness to a cause in which you believe. In addition to improving your world, you can allow yourself to be exposed to others in the world.
In the two years before we moved out of Sydney, my boyfriend/fiance and I did St. Vinnie's Door Knock Appeal. One year it was through a well to do neighbourhood with people with lots to give, the other was a more run down part of town - that was tough!
10. Use this decade to go to extremes. Climb the tallest mountain you can find. Picnic at midnight. Learn to sail. Talk to strangers. Road trip to New Orleans for Mardi Gras. Take a midnight drive to the beach then stick around for dawn.
Road trip to Chicago from New Jersey and explored the green town on St. Patty's Day. Talked to loads of strangers when I moved my life her to Hong Kong and looking for new extremes in the coming years!

Wednesday, August 26, 2009

The day my boyfriend broke my heart

This hurt...

Lowell [1:22 PM]:
haro
murray is seed 2
confirmed
therefore nads and feds in semis 0_0
Nelisa [1:23 PM]:
yeh i know
boring
that's fine
murray vs feds
straight sets
fun
Lowell [1:25 PM]:
murray > nadal
imho
Nelisa [1:25 PM]:
yeh okay
Lowell [1:25 PM]:
seriously
in terms of raw talent

Boot Cap: Day #6

Thinking that Wednesdays are a little harder for me. Probably because it's usually not been more than 12 hours since I played basketball - and last night's game was tough!

Today was a lot of running. Throw various resistance exercises in (burpies, knee-to-elbow, lunges, crunches, squats, push-ups) and you get a VERY tiring morning.
I'm finding that my breathing struggles are becoming a bit of a hinderance. My body is definitely stronger but it's often very tough to push myself when I feel short of breath.

I'm hoping that the remaining sessions will improve that *crossfingers*

Seeya!

Monday, August 24, 2009

Boot Cap: Day #5

The drama of today came from the two hours before I had to wake up this morning. Every time I know it's bootcamp, I wake up way early and struggle to stay asleep till my alarm goes off.

I slept around midnight last night.

... woke up around 2:30am
... woke up again at 4.22am
... and again 4.50am
... then 5.58am
... and still at 5.20am

... and then in about 2-4minute intervals after that.

Hectic right? Well, to me it is.

Today, I did what I did last Wednesday i.e. fitness test for the people that didn't show up last week. I thought I might as well have a crack at improving last week's time.

AND I DID!

Sliced 1 minute 50 seconds off! Woowoo! It helped that my shins/ankles didn't feel like hell this morning.

Clocked in at 16min 26sec!

So... maybe it does get easier :)

Until Wednesday!

Wednesday, August 19, 2009

Boot Cap: Day #4

Fitness test today! There were only 6 people in today which was good because it meant only one person lapped me ;)

1. 4 laps around the football pitch
2. 40 push-ups
3. 80 squats
4. 10 lunges per leg
5. 50 sit-ups
6. 20 back extensions
7. 2 laps around the football pitch

= 18min 16sec

The aim is to get that down to somewhere b/w 15 and 16 minutes in 3 weeks! Wish me luck!

Monday, August 17, 2009

Boot Cap: Day #3

I thought doing the King George Park to Anzac Bridge run on Saturday (with boyfriend forcing me to keep going even when I couldn't breathe) was going to help me conquer that hill. No luck today.

We ran up and down the hill about 3 times and I was absolutely exhausted! It was a nice bit of encouragement when one of the girls told me that it does get easier. I really hope so too. It really doesn't help when my legs are shooting pain. Gonna pay a visit to the Running Science spot sometime this week to see if I can get hooked up with better shoes. Also, I'm going to try to drop into the gym around the corner and spend a bit of time on the bike. Gotta build up those calfs!

Sucks how all I want to do now is steal half an hour's extra sleep but I'm sweaty and stanky. Plus, the clock tells me I should be getting ready for work now.

Until Wednesday...

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

Boot Cap: Day #2

My body is not used to these movements.

Jogs (plural), burpies, jumping squats, crunches, reverse crunches, shuttle run, planks, side planks, push-ups - add to that my sore shins/ankles and the end result is a very sore (and muddy!) me.

Oh and I still had to walk up that hill to get home.

I'm half complaining, half logging the pain so when I beat it (and I will beat it!) I will know how far I've come.

Okay, time to get ready for work! God, the day hasn't even really started.

Monday, August 10, 2009

Boot Cap: Day #1

... and I'm contemplating going again on Wednesday.

First day of bootcamp consisted of a 4.2km hilly run. I swear I lost it up the first street. Steepest hill ever. Not a good start to my Monday morning. I would like to sleep now, thanks.

PS. I think something in my brain triggers my desire for ONLY healthy food. The whole time I was running I was thinking about what I ate last night - creamy mushrooms, potato omelette, chorizos, meatballs...

Sunday, August 09, 2009

So, I got my hair done at a new place

I swear when I saw the hairdresser that was going to do my hair yesterday I briefly thought to myself "this girl looks like a noooooooob". But as I've been taught, you don't judge a book - or in this case, a hairdresser - by its cover. So I didn't, and I agreed to let her dye my hair.

About 40 minutes later, they brought a mirror out to me and I my roots were white and a lot of my hair was - no joke - bright orange. I almost cried. They didn't even take me back out to the salon to fix it up. They left me at the basin where the re-touched it until they thought it was presentable. Even after they were "done" it was way too light - nothing like the colour in the photo I showed them. So they continued to re-touch at the basin and after 2 hours, my hair was at its desired shade.

Trust your instincts: if your hairdresser looks like a noob, they probably are. Don't risk it unless you're okay to have dye burning into your scalp for two and a half hours.

In other news, my hormones are kicking in. Apparently, when you quit, you sign-up for the glory of nature. Great.

Thursday, August 06, 2009

Ms vs Miss

Today I decided I don't mind circling "Miss" on forms, selecting it on the web or writing it before my full name on an RSVP. It seems silly that I spent so long using "Ms" like it made a real difference.

I'm a Miss and proud of it!

The Call Centre Girl

These call centre girls sound so mechanical usually. The one I spoke to just then sounded mechanical and... well... sad.

I guess I would be depressed too if idiots like me called up just to save $2 on their line rental.

Easing back in...

Surveys are good because there's no pressure to be witty. Goodnight!

Who did you last shoot a dirty look at?
probably Lowell

What kind of car do you drive?
I have a choice. Today it's the Tarago

Have you ever had a garage sale?
No

What color is your iPod?
Silver

What kind of dog do you have?
Cattle Dog/Husky

What's for dinner tonight?
Chicken Biryani + Lamb Korma + Garlic Naan

What is the last drink you drank?
Green Tea (Jasmine)

Last time you were sick?
The day before I left for New York (2 Jul)

How long is your hair?
Just below my shoulders

Are you happy right now?
Yeah

What did you say last?
"Byeee"

Who came over last?
Mum

Do you drink beer?
Yes

Have your brothers or sisters ever told you that you were adopted?
Nope, I look too much like my mum for people to try that one on me

What is your favorite key chain on your keys?
the Oroton O

What is in your pocket?
N/A

Who introduced you to your boyfriend or girlfriend?
My ex-boyfriend

Who is the last person you had a phone conversation with?
Mother

What DVD is in your DVD player?
None

What's something fun you did today?
Visited the girls before their New York trip

What do you think of when you hear the word "meow"?
Cat

What are you listening to right now?
My typing and the dryer in the laundry

What have you had to drink so far today?
Mango juice, Water, Tea, Coffee

When is your birthday?
12/12

What's the area code for your cell phone?
04

Where did you buy the shirt you're wearing now?
I didn't buy it, my US cousins sent it in a care package after our 2003 trip

Is there anything hanging from your rear view mirror?
Usually rosary beads

How many states in the U.S. have you been to?
Not counting stopovers: 7, I think

What are you going to do after this?
Sleep

What is something you need to go shopping for?
Wine rack

Do you like pickles?
Sure

How about olives?
Sometimes

What is your favorite kind of gum?
Extra

Do you have any tan lines?
Yes, I hope so. They might be very faint, but I'm thinking they are there

Do you remember the name of your kindergarten teacher?
Miss D Ceravolo

Who was the last person to call you baby?
Lowell

When you're at the grocery store do you used the self checkout?
If I can

Has anyone ever sang to you?
Yes

Has anyone ever given you roses?
Yes

If you were abandoned in the wilderness, would you survive?
Maaaaaybe. I'd like to think so!

What is your favorite color?
Teal

What color are your eyes?
Brown

What is a compliment you receive way too often?
"Man I wish I had your..."

How tall are you?
Measured the other week: 163cm

Who was the last person to say they loved you and when?
Lowell. I believe two nights ago on the phone.

Do you like your parents?
Yes

Why did your last relationship end?
Grew apart, I guess

Who was the last person you said you loved on the phone?
Lowell

Where is the furthest place you've traveled?
New York

Which do you prefer, to eat or sleep?
Eat

Do you look more like your mom or your dad?
Mother, no question

How long does it take you to shower?
10-15 minutes. Depends how late I get up

Can you do splits?
Nope

Can you use the grill?
Yes

Are you flexible?
Nah

What movie do you want to see?
My Sister's Keeper

What did you on New Years Eve 2008?
theLOFT with the cousins, bfs + girls

Was your mom a cheerleader?
Really?

What is the last letter of your middle name?
e

How many hours of sleep did you get last night?
5.5

Do you wear your seatbelt in the car?
Yes

Are you scared of flying?
Nope

What do you sleep in?
Bed socks, shirt, trackies

Do you have any tatoos?
No

Have you ever been to Los Angeles?
Yes

What jewelry do you wear all the time?
None

What is your favorite song at the moment?
The only one I sing in the car is one by Ne-Yo

What song do you HATE?
I think right now I'm really over BEP - I gotta feeling

Do you like chocolate?
Yes

Are you easy to get along with?
Sometimes

Any up coming events you're excited about?
Birth of my first neice - Ayanna Isobel!

Wednesday, July 11, 2007

10 Things to do Before You're 30

Denk blogs the same stuff!

1. Drive a wickedly cool car, even if you have to rent it. "Wickedly cool" is defined as any car that turns heads on the streets. They say life is a journey and you should enjoy the ride.
Still on the TODO list. I'm pretty sure I've ridden in one but I probably don't trust myself to actually drive one. Aren't they all manual? Yeah, I don't do manual...
2. Date against type. Better yet, date somebody "dangerous." Waking up tied to a bed with a person who has more tattoos than brains will give you stories to regale other members of the old-age home in your dotage.
Consider this done.
3. See the world. It's much easier to do when you're 22 and footloose than 35 with two bawling babies in your backpack.
I don't feel like I've seen much, or enough. Especially when I see how many places my high school mates have been to (thanks a lot, Facebook). Still want to finish Asia before I take on Europe. No bawling babies - hopefully just me and my hub.
4. Live in a cool place.
Live? Does stay count? If so, the Hyatt at Coolum takes the cake!
5. If you're going to drink a lot, do it when you're young. Getting sick on cheap white wine after 30 is pretty pathetic. Young drunks sometimes get away with being "cute," though you may still have a lot of apologizing to do. Get this experimentation out of your system and you'll appreciate finer spirits when you get older.
Ft. Lauderdale FI 2004, Waikiki HI 2005... I'm done. Definately.
6. Take risks with your job. Most people end up changing direction in their careers after their 20s anyway, so, take the time to figure out what you want to do. There will be time enough to be a cubicle drone later.
I don't think I've taken risks. I've gone after what I want and I think that's enough... right?
7. Do something physically adventurous. And do it OUTSIDE! No one will ever be remembered for playing Nintendo or watching every single episode of "Friends." Enjoy your body while you're young, push it to its limits!
HEY. I've seen every single episode of Friends (amongst other series')! Got forced into physically adventurous in the ninth grade @ Camp Knox. Then there was Diamond Head and Maunauili Falls a couples year's back. I've (tried to) surf, I've skiied... Still lots to go, definately.
8. Take your parents to dinner. It gives you a chance to show your parents that you are an equal and that you are responsible. It's also a chance to show your appreciation for all those dinners they bought over the years.
Always.
9. Do volunteer work. You may be broke, but you can give your sweat and earnestness to a cause in which you believe. In addition to improving your world, you can allow yourself to be exposed to others in the world.
Planted a few plants once, went to a few benefits... probably not enough though. There's a difference between doing volunteer work and doing something you want to do without any benefits to you, at all.
10. Use this decade to go to extremes. Climb the tallest mountain you can find. Picnic at midnight. Learn to sail. Talk to strangers. Road trip to New Orleans for Mardi Gras. Take a midnight drive to the beach then stick around for dawn.
Tallest mountain - Diamond Head? Balmoral at sunrise... okay, still got a bit to go =|

Wednesday, June 20, 2007

why won't you give me a chance

I have a feeling, and correct me if I'm wrong, that you're one of those lost souls. One of those guys constantly on a quest to find themselves. And normally I'd find that romantic if I thought you had a chance of succeeding - but I don't.

Why is that?

Because you can't stand to let anyone down - you can't say no. That's why everyone likes you. That's why you'll probably get more dates than I do tonight. But you're never gonna find yourself if you don't do what you wanna do and not care what anyone else thinks.

So you don't care if anyone likes you?

I try not to.

Y'know maybe you're afraid that if you care about someone, you might get hurt if you do?

Maybe. But that conversation will take longer than three minutes.

-- What About Brian Season 2 Episode 7

Sunday, May 20, 2007

two.

Baby, it was uncool to love me
Then leave me standing here now
Without a goodbye
And maybe I am the fool you call me
Cause I'll be here standing, waiting
To hear you say to me

I'm ready (you know I'm ready)
To love you (to love you)
Forever (forever)
And ever, baby
Come and love me forever more

Sometimes, when I'm alone I feel sad
Cause I know you'll leave me once again
And take my pride
And maybe I am the fool you call me
Cause I'll be here standing, waiting
To hear you say to me

I'm ready (you know I'm ready)
To love you (to love you)
Forever (forever)
And ever, baby
Come and love me forever more

And once again I'll be right here
Waiting to share your love
But oh this time for once
We'll forever be in love

tevin campbell - i'm ready

Sunday, May 13, 2007

Honestly

In the spirt of 'brutally honest' (sortof)...

40 Secrets About Yourself

1. What Is your natural hair color?
Honestly: dark brown to almost black

2. Where was your default pic taken?
Honestly: myspace - at alisa/lori's 25th birthday do - it's me and vin showing off our good sides; blogger - some pizza place at copacabana

3. What's your middle name?
Honestly: angeline

4. Your current relationship status?
Honestly: waiting

5. Honestly, does your crush like you back?
Honestly: pretty sure

6. What is your current mood?
Honestly: overly-relaxed - so much so that i have a headache

7.What color underwear are you wearing?
Honestly: pink

8.What makes you happy?
Honestly: hugs

10. If you could go back in time, and change something what you would change?
Honestly: how immature i was when i made some bad choices

11. If you MUST be an animal for ONE day- what would you be?
Honestly: a bird

12. Ever had a near death experience?
Honestly: when veed turned the scooter into the wrong lane and we had cars driving at us in samui

13. Something you do a lot?
Honestly: eat

14. What's the name of the song stuck in your head right now?
Honestly: luther - so amazing

15. Who did you copy and paste this from?
Honestly: denk

16. Name someone with the same b-day as you?
Honestly: jennifer connelly

17. When was the last time you cried?
Honestly: last sunday

18. Have you ever sung in front of a large audience?
Honestly: yep

19. If you could have one super power what would it be?
Honestly: too easy... teleportation

20. What's the first thing you notice about the opposite/same sex?
Honestly: smile

21. What do you usually order from Starbucks?
Honestly: skinny vanilla latte

22. What's your biggest secret?
Honestly: funny...

23. Favorite color?
Honestly: to wear, probably teal, brown and purple...

24. When was the last time you lied?
Honestly: "hello, i have a problem with BlackBox, it's green"

25. Do you still watch kiddy movies or TV shows?
Honestly: does 'Happy Feet' count? rarely though... i'm never home for kiddy TV time

27. What are you eating or drinking at the moment?
Honestly: nada. i think i ate too much at lunch

28. Do you speak any other language?
Honestly: i can read japanese characters, i can speak a bit of tagalog, spanish, japanese...

29. What's your favourite smell?
Honestly: bread from town hall's german bakery

30. If you could describe your life in one word what would it be?
Honestly: exciting

31. When was the last time you gave/received a hug?
Honestly: yesterday

33. What are you thinking about right now?
Honestly: dinner

34. What should you be doing?
Honestly: something other than sitting here doing myspace surveys

35. What was the last thing that made you upset/angry?
Honestly: my dog chewed my underwear and my newest bikini this morning

36. How often do you pray?
Honestly: not enough

37. Do you like working in the yard?
Honestly: when i have to

38. If you could have any last name in the world, what would you want?
Honestly: i luff mine - redoblado

39. Do you act differently around your crush?
Honestly: yuhuh... i believe is an retardard

40. Name one song that reminds you of an ex?
Honestly: "everything you are" coko and tevin campbell

Friday, April 06, 2007

You have 7 unheard messages

... and that's when I decided they were meant to be

The Office - Season 2, Episode 14

Monday, March 12, 2007

Daydreamin'

Day dreaming and im thinking of you
Look at my mind
Floating away

Hes the kind of guy that would say
Hey baby lets get away
Lets go some place
Huh
Where I don't care
Hes the kind of guy that you give
Your everything, trust your heart share
All of your love till death do us part
I wanna be what he wants
When he wants it and whenever he needs it
And whenever hes lonesome love starved
ill be there to feed it

Im loving him a little bit more each day
Turns me right on when I hear him say

Hey baby lets get away
Lets go somewhere
Where I don't care

***

Today was my first day back at work after the Thailand holiday that blew me away... blew me right away! I loved it! Ya'll will love it...!

Photos are up: http://www.imagestation.com/members/nelisa

Seeya!

Monday, January 08, 2007

exceptional

You're beautiful but you don't know
Can't see what's there inside your soul
Always feelin like you're not good enough
You wish you could be someone else
Sometimes you just can't see yourself
But I can see just who you are, who you are

You're exceptional the way you are
Don't need to change for nobody
You're incredible, anyone can see that
When will you believe that?
You are nothing but exceptional

You never you think you measure up
Never smart or cool, or pretty enough
Always feeling different from all the rest, oh
You feel so out of place, you think you don't fit in
I think you're perfect in the skin you're in
You're just perfect just how you are, just how you are, yeah

If you could see the one I see when I see you
You'd know how lucky you are to be you
I see through into you