They exist - and just like secrets, everybody has them but nobody talks about them. Everybody has them and we all wish noone else did. But there out there. Can't do anything about them - so I blog about them.
Something I realised while on my holiday (yep, I holiday but my mind is still pondering) is that the biggest double standard that I have is the one by which I encourage people to 'move on'. Move on from situations, people, or, more commonly, past loves. I still attest to the fact that moving on can be, and many times is, one of the most liberating things one can do.
Why can't I, do you ask?
PET PEEVES
They say you need to earn respect. Respect and be respected right? So I suppose, if you attack, don't expect to not be on the receiving end of some sort of retaliation.
I don't appreciate feeling like a second rate friend to people who expect me to bend over backwards for them
I don't appreciate feeling attacked for asking a favour
... then people wonder why I'm not assertive. I get offended, just like everyone else, but I get over it. I just needed to vent.
I'll say it again, I'm over it. Don't ask me about this, unless you want me to relive it. Please don't make me relive it.
MORAL OF THE STORY
* Double Standards suck, but wishing people didn't have them would be a double standard in itself.
* Don't talk to me about this post
* You get what you give
* Don't talk to me about this post
* Good night.
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